Review: Far From the Tree

far from the treeFlap Copy: From the National Book Award-winning author of The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression comes a monumental new work, a decade in the writing, about family. In Far from the Tree, Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so.

Solomon’s startling proposition is that diversity is what unites us all. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.

All parenting turns on a crucial question: to what extent parents should accept their children for who they are, and to what extent they should help them become their best selves. Drawing on forty thousand pages of interview transcripts with more than three hundred families, Solomon mines the eloquence of ordinary people facing extreme challenges. Whether considering prenatal screening for genetic disorders, cochlear implants for the deaf, or gender reassignment surgery for transgender people, Solomon narrates a universal struggle toward compassion. Many families grow closer through caring for a challenging child; most discover supportive communities of others similarly affected; some are inspired to become advocates and activists, celebrating the very conditions they once feared. Woven into their courageous and affirming stories is Solomon’s journey to accepting his own identity, which culminated in his midlife decision, influenced by this research, to become a parent.

Elegantly reported by a spectacularly original thinker, Far from the Tree explores themes of generosity, acceptance, and tolerance – all rooted in the insight that love can transcend every prejudice. This crucial and revelatory book expands our definition of what it is to be human.

Review: Oh, how I loved this book. I think there’s something in it for all parents, but will resonate especially for those for whom the birth or parenting experience has not been what was expected. Solomon has a deft touch with his explorations of each condition, fully presenting the difficulties faced by the child and his or her parents, but also the unique joys that are possible despite – or because of – the unexpected. Just as I thought “I could never handle that,” he presents parents who have remind me of myself and give me confidence in the human race to overcome whatever is placed in front of us.

Solomon’s own journey through childhood and into parenthood gives a nice structure to the book, and yet it steers clear of memoir territory in the best possible way. It is a big book, and difficult to read in large chunks given the subject matter, but this was so worth my time. I will carry the inspiration from this book through the rest of my life.

Source: Public library

Review: To Rise Again at a Decent Hour

Flap Copy: A big, brilliant,to rise again profoundly observed novel about the mysteries of modern life by National Book Award Finalist Joshua Ferris, one of the most exciting voices of his generation

Paul O’Rourke is a man made of contradictions: he loves the world, but doesn’t know how to live in it. He’s a Luddite addicted to his iPhone, a dentist with a nicotine habit, a rabid Red Sox fan devastated by their victories, and an atheist not quite willing to let go of God.

Then someone begins to impersonate Paul online, and he watches in horror as a website, a Facebook page, and a Twitter account are created in his name. What begins as an outrageous violation of his privacy soon becomes something more soul-frightening: the possibility that the online “Paul” might be a better version of the real thing. As Paul’s quest to learn why his identity has been stolen deepens, he is forced to confront his troubled past and his uncertain future in a life disturbingly split between the real and the virtual.

At once laugh-out-loud funny about the absurdities of the modern world, and indelibly profound about the eternal questions of the meaning of life, love and truth, To Rise Again at a Decent Hour is a deeply moving and constantly surprising tour de force.

Review: I’m sort of at a loss for how to describe this book. I didn’t not like it, but it really wasn’t what I was expecting and it threw me for a loop. I think the hard part was that I really didn’t feel much sympathy for the main character – he’s not a likable person, and I couldn’t quite grasp the importance of his soul-searching quest, because I wasn’t convinced that he would become more likable if he succeeded.

Despite these critiques, the writing is very good, and there were passages that stuck with me – the banal descriptions of life in a dentist’s office (of all things), the secret vices that people embrace even when they know better, and some of the characters that Paul interacts with are utterly believable and fun. I haven’t read anything else by Joshua Ferris but his short fiction comes highly recommended, and I suspect I might be a bigger fan of that than his longform work. I’ll have to check it out!

Source: Advance Reader’s Copy from Little Brown

Review: The Spark and the Drive

HarrisonFlap Copy: By an award-winning writer of short fiction, a devastatingly powerful debut novel of hero-worship, first love, and betrayal.

Justin Bailey is seventeen when he arrives at the shop of legendary muscle car mechanic Nick Campbell. Anguished and out of place among the students at his rural Connecticut high school, Justin finds in Nick, his captivating wife Mary Ann, and their world of miraculous machines the sense of family he has struggled to find at home. But when Nick and Mary Ann’s lives are struck by tragedy, Justin’s own world is upended. Suddenly Nick, once celebrated for his mechanical genius, has lost his touch. Mary Ann, once tender and compassionate to her husband, has turned distant. As Justin tries to support his suffering mentor, he finds himself drawn toward the man’s grieving wife. Torn apart by feelings of betrayal, Justin must choose between the man he admires more than his own father and the woman he yearns for.A poignant and fiercely original debut, with moments of fast-paced suspense, Wayne Harrison’s The Spark and The Drive is the unforgettable story of a young man forced to make an impossible decision—no matter the consequences.

Review: Devastating is right. This book has some really gut-wrenching scenarios brought alive by the author’s realistic and sympathetic voice. Justin is such a sweet naive idiot, you just want to shake him straight when he believes in love and goodness and happiness. The motivations are complicated and the results are complex — I highly recommend this book for people who like gritty fiction with real characters. (Or for people who like cars. I feel like I learned a little something about how to drive stick shifts from this book.)

Source: Advance copy from St. Martin’s Press

Review: Bread & Butter

bread and butterFlap Copy: Kitchen Confidential meets Three Junes in this mouthwatering novel about three brothers who run competing restaurants, and the culinary snobbery, staff stealing, and secret affairs that unfold in the back of the house.

Britt and Leo have spent ten years running Winesap, the best restaurant in their small Pennsylvania town. They cater to their loyal customers; they don’t sleep with the staff; and business is good, even if their temperamental pastry chef is bored with making the same chocolate cake night after night. But when their younger brother, Harry, opens his own restaurant—a hip little joint serving an aggressive lamb neck dish—Britt and Leo find their own restaurant thrown off-kilter. Britt becomes fascinated by a customer who arrives night after night, each time with a different dinner companion. Their pastry chef, Hector, quits, only to reappear at Harry’s restaurant. And Leo finds himself falling for his executive chef-tempted to break the cardinal rule of restaurant ownership. Filled with hilarious insider detail—the one-upmanship of staff meals before the shift begins, the rivalry between bartender and hostess, the seedy bar where waitstaff and chefs go to drink off their workday—Bread and Butter is both an incisive novel of family and a gleeful romp through the inner workings of restaurant kitchens.

Review: This was a fun look at the behind-the-counter life of a restaurant, but I had a hard time connecting to the characters. The three brothers’ personal storylines just didn’t grab me, although the description of the restaurants and the food, and the women they fall in love with, were enough to keep me going.

One warning – read this book with a snack at hand, because you will get hungry reading the descriptions of the food!

Source: Finished copy from Doubleday

Review: Landline

RowellFlap Copy:

From New York Times bestselling author of Eleanor & Park and Fangirl, Rainbow Rowell, comes a hilarious, heart-wrenching take on love, marriage, and magic phones.

Georgie McCool knows her marriage is in trouble. That it’s been in trouble for a long time. She still loves her husband, Neal, and Neal still loves her, deeply—but that almost seems beside the point now.
Maybe that was always beside the point.

Two days before they’re supposed to visit Neal’s family in Omaha for Christmas, Georgie tells Neal that she can’t go. She’s a TV writer, and something’s come up on her show; she has to stay in Los Angeles. She knows that Neal will be upset with her—Neal is always a little upset with Georgie—but she doesn’t expect to him to pack up the kids and go without her.

When her husband and the kids leave for the airport, Georgie wonders if she’s finally done it. If she’s ruined everything.

That night, Georgie discovers a way to communicate with Neal in the past. It’s not time travel, not exactly, but she feels like she’s been given an opportunity to fix her marriage before it starts. . . .

Is that what she’s supposed to do?

Or would Georgie and Neal be better off if their marriage never happened?

Review: A delightful little novel — it’s all magical realism and those musty old dinosaurs called landlines telephones. Is poor Georgie out of her mind, or is the phone really a time portal? It certainly works magic on Georgie’s priorities while she sorts out her life over a Christmas away from her kids and husband. I particularly appreciated how the author described her husband as slightly unpleasant — a little on edge, a little withdrawn, but passionate and devoted. It almost (almost) made me remember why I fell for boyfriends in high school (almost). Anyway, it’s not all doom, gloom then happily-ever-after. There are delightful characters like Georgie’s very sensual mother and her ex-pool boy husband, Georgie’s sister and the “pizza” “boy” and Scotty the Script Boy. One of these days, and I mean it, I’m going to read Rainbow Rowell’s other books because I’m sure they are just as pleasing.

Source: Review copy from St. Martin’s Press

Review: The Weight of Blood

Weight of BloodFlap Copy: The town of Henbane sits deep in the Ozark Mountains. Folks there still whisper about Lucy Dane’s mother, a bewitching stranger who appeared long enough to marry Carl Dane and then vanished when Lucy was just a child. Now on the brink of adulthood, Lucy experiences another loss when her friend Cheri disappears and is then found murdered, her body placed on display for all to see. Lucy’s family has deep roots in the Ozarks, part of a community that is fiercely protective of its own. Yet despite her close ties to the land, and despite her family’s influence, Lucy—darkly beautiful as her mother was—is always thought of by those around her as her mother’s daughter. When Cheri disappears, Lucy is haunted by the two lost girls—the mother she never knew and the friend she couldn’t save—and sets out with the help of a local boy, Daniel, to uncover the mystery behind Cheri’s death.

What Lucy discovers is a secret that pervades the secluded Missouri hills, and beyond that horrific revelation is a more personal one concerning what happened to her mother more than a decade earlier.

The Weight of Blood is an urgent look at the dark side of a bucolic landscape beyond the arm of the law, where a person can easily disappear without a trace. Laura McHugh proves herself a masterly storyteller who has created a harsh and tangled terrain as alive and unforgettable as the characters who inhabit it. Her mesmerizing debut is a compelling exploration of the meaning of family: the sacrifices we make, the secrets we keep, and the lengths to which we will go to protect the ones we love.

Review: What does the weight of blood refer to? Is it the guilt on your head or the thickness in your veins that cements you to family, no matter what they become? This is a good mystery novel; a creepy whodunnit that makes you squirm a little at how familiar a monster can become when you see it every day. It’s a dense and well-crafted debut novel, which really makes it all the more admirable how the author wove the characters in and out over a span of fifteen or twenty years.

Source: Advance review copy from Random House

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Review: The Moon Sisters

ImageFlap Copy: This mesmerizing coming-of-age novel, with its sheen of near-magical realism, is a moving tale of family and the power of stories.

After their mother’s probable suicide, sisters Olivia and Jazz take steps to move on with their lives. Jazz, logical and forward-thinking, decides to get a new job, but spirited, strong-willed Olivia—who can see sounds, taste words, and smell sights—is determined to travel to the remote setting of their mother’s unfinished novel to lay her spirit properly to rest.

Already resentful of Olivia’s foolish quest and her family’s insistence upon her involvement, Jazz is further aggravated when they run into trouble along the way and Olivia latches to a worldly train-hopper who warns he shouldn’t be trusted. As they near their destination, the tension builds between the two sisters, each hiding something from the other, until they are finally forced to face everything between them and decide what is really important.

Review: This is a sweet but sad story of how a pair of right/left sisters bond after their mother’s tragic death. Jazz is a very real character, stifled by her family and the small town they live in and realistic about their mother’s life and death. Her sister Olivia is whimsical and artistic to the point of probably ending up like their mother if she doesn’t find an outlet. She dealt with the tragedy by staring at the sun, which with her synesthesia, makes her a big of an enigmatic wild card.

For all the ways the sisters were sheltered, they make their way on a journey to give their mother’s memory peace. Not all the decisions along the way were terribly realistic, but I suppose reality is frequently suspended when people react to grief. Along the way, their mother’s voice is interspersed through her letters to her father, lending mystery and satisfaction to why the girls are the way they are and how they end up.

Source: Advance review copy from Crown.


From books to video games

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Two fun ways of relieving stress

Eighty percent of workers feel stressed while on the job, nearly half say they need help in learning how to manage stress and 42 percent say their coworkers are in need of such help. These are the statistics reported by The American Institute of Stress. Due to advancements in modern science, some people spend a great deal of money on medication, counseling and other psychological treatments just to help relieve stress. However there are better ways of getting rid of stress like reading books and playing video games. Both of them provide relaxation to your body and mind and they are also easy on your budget.

Reading books may sound traditional but it is one of the most effective ways to relax. Studies show that reading for as little as six minutes is already enough to reduce your stress levels by more than two thirds. The latest research conducted at the University of Sussex showed that reading works better and quicker in calming nerves more than listening to music, going for a walk, or relaxing with a cup of tea.

Among all the methods tested, reading was proven to be the most effective at reducing stress levels by 68 percent, according to cognitive neuropsychologist Dr. David Lewis. The participants needed to read silently for six minutes to slow down the heart rate and alleviate muscle strains. In fact it got subjects to stress levels lower than before they started. Listening to music decreased the levels by 61 percent, having a cup of tea reduced by 54 percent and taking a walk by 42 percent. Dr. Lewis added that no matter what book you read, by losing yourself in a book, you can escape from all the stresses and worries of your daily life.

A more advanced approach in battling stress is playing video games. In an article from PsychCentral, an unforeseen discovery suggests playing video games can reduce production of the stress-related hormone cortisol.

McGill psychology Professor Mark Baldwin and his team –PhD graduates Stéphane Dandeneau and Jodene Baccus and graduate student Maya Sakellaropoulo, have been developed a series of video games that train players in social situations to focus more on positive feedback rather than being distracted and deterred by perceived social slights or criticisms.
Although playing video games can help battle stress, players should also be aware of the importance of playing moderately. Most online gaming companies are addressing this issue by working with agencies who are advocates of responsible gaming. Alchemy Bet Ltd., developer for mobile gaming app pocket fruity, is cooperating with gambleaware.co.uk to provide information to help people make informed decision about their gaming. Responsible gaming means treating the activity as just one form of entertainment in a balanced lifestyle.

Simple but relaxing activities such as reading books and playing video games can relieve stress in more ways that you can imagine.

Review: How We Die

how we dieFlap Copy: Attempting to demythologize the process of dying, Nuland explores how we shall die, each of us in a way that will be unique. Through particular stories of dying–of patients, and of his own family–he examines the seven most common roads to death: old age, cancer, AIDS, Alzheimer’s, accidents, heart disease, and strokes, revealing the facets of death’s multiplicity.

A runaway bestseller and National Book Award winner, Sherwin Nuland’s “How We Die” has become the definitive text on perhaps the single most universal human concern: death. This new edition includes an all-embracing and incisive afterword that examines the current state of health care and our relationship with life as it approaches its terminus. It also discusses how we can take control of our own final days and those of our loved ones.

Shewin Nuland’s masterful “How We Die” is even more relevant than when it was first published.

 

Review: Everyone should read this book.

Dr. Nuland demonstrates the deep compassion of the physician along with the hard-earned knowledge that comes from facing death day in and day out and knowing that your skills may keep it at bay but will ultimately fail to prevent it. In describing the various forms death takes, he helps to remove some of the fear and uncertainty surrounding it. He also highlights just how much modern medicine is not capable of doing, and where it goes wrong in prolonging “life” at all costs. The chapters on cancer and AIDS are particularly informative, leaving me with new respect for the simple fact that anyone survives anything at all.

More than anything, Dr. Nuland’s compassion for the person, not just the patient, comes pouring out of the page, and it is here that his true brilliance shines. May we all be so fortunate to have someone of his caliber at our side when death visits us.

Source: Public library

 

 

 

Review: Songs of Willow Frost

songs of willow frostFlap Copy: Twelve-year-old William Eng, a Chinese-American boy, has lived at Seattle’s Sacred Heart Orphanage ever since his mother’s listless body was carried away from their small apartment five years ago. On his birthday—or rather, the day the nuns designate as his birthday—William and the other orphans are taken to the historical Moore Theatre, where William glimpses an actress on the silver screen who goes by the name of Willow Frost. Struck by her features, William is convinced that the movie star is his mother, Liu Song.

Determined to find Willow, and prove his mother is still alive, William escapes from Sacred Heart with his friend Charlotte. The pair navigates the streets of Seattle, where they must not only survive, but confront the mysteries of William’s past and his connection to the exotic film star. The story of Willow Frost, however, is far more complicated than the Hollywood fantasy William sees onscreen.

Shifting between the Great Depression and the 1920s, Songs of Willow Frost takes readers on an emotional journey of discovery. Jamie Ford’s sweeping book will resonate with anyone who has ever longed for the comforts of family and a place to call home.

Review: Overall, I would describe this book as tragic. So many tragic things happen, to Liu Song, to William, to his friend Charlotte. Tragedy abounds, and what’s worse is that some of the details are specific enough to indicate that these kinds of things really did happen to people. The book leaves the reader a little depressed about the state of the world. And that’s not a bad thing, in my opinion – I like a book that causes feels.

While I was interested in the story, something bugged me about the telling of it. I had a hard time putting my finger on it, but I think I felt like many parts of the story were being overexplained to me as they were told. I saw some of the twists coming miles away, but they were danced around for paragraphs or pages after anyone should have figured them out. This was kind of frustrating for me, as it felt like it was slowing the story down. It’s too bad, because the tragedy of the central characters would have been a lot more intense without that distraction.

Source: Advance reader’s copy from Ballantine

Review: Chop Chop

chop chopFlap Copy: Fresh out of university with big dreams, our narrator is determined to escape his past and lead the literary life in London. But soon he is two months behind on rent and forced to take a menial job in the kitchen of The Swan, a gastro-pub with haute cuisine aspirations.

Mockingly called “Monocle” by his co-workers for a useless English lit degree, he is thrust into a brutal, chaotic world full of motley characters. There’s the lovably dim pastry chef Dibden; combative Ramilov, who spends a fair bit of time locked in the walk-in fridge for pissing people off; Racist Dave, about whom the less said the better; Camp Charles, the officious head waiter; and Harmony, the only woman in a workplace of raunchy, immature, angry, drug-fueled men. Worst of all is the head chef, Bob, who runs the kitchen with an iron fist and an alarming taste for cruelty.

But Monocle’s past is never far away and soon an altogether darker tale unfolds. As the chefs’ dreams of overthrowing Bob become a reality, Monocle’s dead-beat father shows up at his door, asking for help. With The Swan struggling to stay afloat and Monocle’s father dredging up lingering questions from an unhappy childhood, Chop Chop accelerates toward its blackly hilarious, thrilling, and ruthless conclusion.

Review: Chop Chop is an utterly unexpected charmer. Our verbose and rambling narrator backpedals his way through the story to hilarious effect, hinting at a terrible ending that looms over the story until its revelation. Monocle’s power of self-observation is evident throughout, which makes us both love him and desperately want him to shut up already. His humble start in a violent, fast-paced London restaurant kitchen gives way to love, growth, and surprising strength. Parts of the story were creepy and hair-raising, in part because they were so unbelievably believable, like the tales of kitchen life that the author weaves. Overall, I felt a particular fondness for Monocle and his kitchen comrades, and I was sorry to see the story end.

Source: Advance review copy from Penguin

Review: You Can Date Boys When You’re Forty

you can date boysFlap Copy: A brilliantly funny exploration of the twin mysteries of parenthood and families from the Pulitzer Prize winner and New York Times–bestselling author of Insane City.

In his New York Timesbestselling I’ll Mature When I’m Dead, Dave Barry embarked on the treacherous seas of adulthood, to hilarious results. What comes next? Parenthood, of course, and families.

In uproarious, brand-new pieces, Barry tackles everything from family trips, bat mitzvah parties and dating (he’s serious about that title: “When my daughter can legally commence dating—February 24, 2040—I intend to monitor her closely, even if I am deceased”) to funeral instructions (“I would like my eulogy to be given by William Shatner”), the differences between male and female friendships, the deeper meaning of Fifty Shades of Grey, and a father’s ultimate sacrifice: accompanying his daughter to a Justin Bieber concert (“It turns out that the noise teenaged girls make to express happiness is the same noise they would make if their feet were being gnawed off by badgers”).

Let’s face it: families not only enrich our lives every day, they drive us completely around the bend. Thank goodness we have Dave Barry as our guide!

Review: Oh, how I love Dave Barry! His take on women, children, and families is hilarious as ever. I particularly loved the chapter about Fifty Shades of Grey, which had me in couch-shaking fits of laughter from beginning to end. Fantastic goofy leisure reading!

Source: Advance review copy from Putnam

Review: The Mother of All Toddler Books

mother of all toddlerFlap Copy: Your baby’s growing up! The joys and challenges of parenting a toddler are many, and you may be wondering how best to prepare for this exciting time. The Mother of All Toddler Books provides the skinny on what it’s really like to raise a toddler, giving you expert guidance in everything from discipline and nutritional needs to sleep problems and behavioral issues. Packed with parent-tested advice, money-saving tips, and medically reviewed answers to all your toddler health questions, this comprehensive, entertaining guide is a must-have for surviving and enjoying this exciting time in your child’s life.

Warm and down-to-earth, The Mother of All Toddler Books covers the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of parenting a toddler, offering a hefty dose of reassurance for everything from toddler-proofing your home to toilet training without stress to administering first aid. Inside, you’ll find proven strategies for coping with whining, dawdling, and tantrums, as well as handy growth charts, immunization schedules, safety checklists, a directory of key parenting and pediatric health organizations, and a listing of Internet resources. Concise, authoritative, and fun to read, The Mother of All Toddler Books has everything you need to raise a happy, healthy child!

Review: I really loved The Mother of All Pregnancy Books and was excited to find this at a consignment sale, although somehow I missed The Mother of All Baby Books. Unlike many books in the pregnancy/parenting advice category, this series is broad, unshaming, and includes quotes from real mothers that I actually believe came from real mothers. From sleep to feeding to baby proofing to dealing with your child’s emerging awareness of the world, The Mother of All Toddler Books is a really great guide for the year after the Big One. In fact, it’s the only one I plan to read for this particular time of our lives – perhaps I have calmed down as a parent and no longer need to read All The Books, but I also feel like the information is comprehensive enough to cover pretty much anything we’ll run into. A+!

Source: Personal library

Review: Dragnet Nation

dragnet nationFlap Copy: An inside look at who’s watching you, what they know and why it matters. We are being watched.

We see online ads from websites we’ve visited, long after we’ve moved on to other interests. Our smartphones and cars transmit our location, enabling us to know what’s in the neighborhood but also enabling others to track us. And the federal government, we recently learned, has been conducting a massive data-gathering surveillance operation across the Internet and on our phone lines.

In Dragnet Nation, award-winning investigative journalist Julia Angwin reports from the front lines of America’s surveillance economy, offering a revelatory and unsettling look at how the government, private companies, and even criminals use technology to indiscriminately sweep up vast amounts of our personal data. In a world where we can be watched in our own homes, where we can no longer keep secrets, and where we can be impersonated, financially manipulated, or even placed in a police lineup, Angwin argues that the greatest long-term danger is that we start to internalize the surveillance and censor our words and thoughts, until we lose the very freedom that makes us unique individuals. Appalled at such a prospect, Angwin conducts a series of experiments to try to protect herself, ranging from quitting Google to carrying a “burner” phone, showing how difficult it is for an average citizen to resist the dragnets’ reach.

Her book is a cautionary tale for all of us, with profound implications for our values, our society, and our very selves.

Review: Unsettling is not the word for this book. I was downright freaked out by the stories Angwin told about regular people who were followed, taped, tapped, and trapped with their own personal data. It’s an accessible, fascinating, and disturbing tale about what the government and commercial entities are able to learn about you from your everyday behavior. Most of the time, this information is stored and never used, or used for middlingly nefarious purposes like targeted advertising, but depending on your gender, skin color, and spelling of your name, this information could easily becoming damning.

On the one hand, I feel like I’m not doing anything that is illegal or immoral or even terribly embarrassing, so I have nothing to hide. On the other hand, I feel like my actions on the phone, on the go, and on the web aren’t anyone’s business but my own – but it’s surprisingly easy for almost anyone to get that information. The difficulties Angwin encounters in being untrackable are far greater than those I can imagine putting into practice for my every day life (not carrying phones at all, carrying specific phones for specific people) but I’m glad I read this book to become more aware of what can be done with the devices I already use.

Source: Public library

Review: Just Take a Bite

just take a biteFlap Copy: Is your child a “picky” eater or a full-fledged resistant eater? Does he or she eat only 3-20 foods, refusing all others? Eat from only one food group? Gag, tantrum, or become anxious if you introduce new foods? If so, you have a resistant eater. Learn the possible causes, when you need professional help, and how to deal with the behavior at home. Learn why “Don’t play with your food!” and “Clean your plate!”—along with many other old saws—are just plain wrong. And who said you have to eat dessert last? Get ready to have some stereotypes shattered!

Review: This is an excellent companion to any of Ellen Sattyr’s books – a clear guide to encouraging resistant eaters to develop a healthy relationship with food. While not exactly a workbook, the content is laid out sequentially and helpfully and includes exercises and other motor skill activities to try before introducing food to a child. Most importantly, the authors work hard to reduce the stigma of a “picky eater”, encouraging parents, teachers and caregivers to recognize that eating is not necessarily a power struggle for many kids, but an issue of skills and safety.

Source: Public Library

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