Review: Baby Body Signs

baby body signsFlap Copy: From blue birthmarks to bulging belly buttons, dimpled ears to double eyelashes, this indispensable guide will teach you how to interpret the “body signs” that are important clues to your baby’s health.

Like most parents, you probably notice—and often worry about—every little change in your growing baby. Why is one of his pupils bigger than the other? What’s that bald spot on her head? Why is he walking on tippy toes? Drawn from the latest research and reviewed by a panel of pediatricians and other medical experts, Baby Body Signs will answer these and other troubling questions. You’ll also learn

• when snoring is normal and when it’s a sign of sleep apnea
• what type of freckles may signal a rare genetic disorder
• how a simple baby photo can help uncover an eye tumor
• when swollen breasts in babies are a sign of a hormonal problem

Baby Body Signs will help you decide when to call the pediatrician and when to relax and stop worrying. What’s more, it’s packed with fascinating facts about child health—from how in medieval Europe babies were expected to talk when they had all their teeth to the fact that the ears are the first part of the body to reach full size. As entertaining as it is informative, this is the book you’ll want to keep close at hand throughout your baby’s infancy and toddler years.

Review: This is a very handy reference guide to all the things you want to know – but don’t even know to ask! Written in a simple question-and-answer format, Baby Body Signs manages to provide information without a lot of fear attached – a must for new parents, and one that very few baby books manage to pull off. I learned a number of things to watch for that I would never have thought to look for, and my mind was put to ease about a few things that I was already watching. This is a fantastic read for new parents.

Source: Public library

Review: The Normal Bar

normal barFlap Copy: Based on an unprecedented survey of the romantic lives of more than 100,000 people, most of them in couple relationships, “The Normal Bar” identifies what is “normal” for the most satisfied partners, and provides effective tools for shifting one’s normal if one so desires.

This book’s team of expert authors uses a powerful interactive survey tool known as OnQ to compare relationships around the world, sorting for such criteria as ethnic differences, age, gender, and income. What is delivered is the ultimate resource for anyone who wants to learn the keys to satisfaction and contentment in areas such as communication, sex, affection, and financial cooperation. “The Normal Bar” is the first book to give readers a snapshot of what relationships look like from the inside–from the typical couple’s surprising embrace of bedroom kinkiness to the real factors that sour marriages to the role played by friends, family, and children. Most important, it insightfully charts the alternative paths that readers can take to improve their own romantic situation.

Review: We all love to compare ourselves to others, and The Normal Bar allows you to do that with relationships! Most relationship books focus on the “shoulds” and the “shouldn’ts”, but this one dives deep into how people actually live their lives and relate to one another. Filled with tips on how to achieve the most effective communication and demonstrate caring for your partner, The Normal Bar is inspiring without being sappy.

Source: Public library

Review: The Wonder Weeks

wonder weeksFlap Copy: In The Wonder Weeks, you’ll discover the specific dates during their first 14 months when all babies take eight major developmental leaps. And you’ll learn how to help your baby through the eight great “fussy phases” that mark these leaps within a week or two.

Wonder week by wonder week, you’ll see how your baby’s mind is developing. Now you will know which games and toys are best for your baby during each key week and how to encourage each leap forward. Calendars, charts, and checklists help you track your baby’s progress– and finally make sense of his fussy behavior.

This is a baby book like no other. It will be your indispensable guide to the crucial “wonder weeks” of your baby’s first year.

Review: The Wonder Weeks is unlike any other Baby’s First Year book that I’ve read. Instead of focusing on illnesses, bottles vs. breastfeeding, or any rumination on the nature of infant poop, The Wonder Weeks focuses on key developmental weeks and gives you insight into what is happening in your baby’s brain and body. Parents know that it’s possible to see the wheels turning in baby’s head, especially when they are about to start doing something new. The Wonder Weeks synthesizes that information into a useful guide that helps you predict, prepare for, and survive those periods when it seemed like everything was falling into place, only to fall apart!

Source: Personal library

Review: Good Prose

good proseFlap Copy: Good Prose is an inspiring book about writing—about the creation of good prose—and the record of a warm and productive literary friendship. The story begins in 1973, in the offices of The Atlantic Monthly, in Boston, where a young freelance writer named Tracy Kidder came looking for an assignment. Richard Todd was the editor who encouraged him. From that article grew a lifelong association. Before long, Kidder’s The Soul of a New Machine, the first book the two worked on together, had won the Pulitzer Prize. It was a heady moment, but for Kidder and Todd it was only the beginning of an education in the art of nonfiction.

Good Prose explores three major nonfiction forms: narratives, essays, and memoirs. Kidder and Todd draw candidly, sometimes comically, on their own experience—their mistakes as well as accomplishments—to demonstrate the pragmatic ways in which creative problems get solved. They also turn to the works of a wide range of writers, novelists as well as nonfiction writers, for models and instruction. They talk about narrative strategies (and about how to find a story, sometimes in surprising places), about the ethical challenges of nonfiction, and about the realities of making a living as a writer. They offer some tart and emphatic opinions on the current state of language. And they take a clear stand against playing loose with the facts. Their advice is always grounded in the practical world of writing and publishing.

Good Prose—like Strunk and White’s The Elements of Style—is a succinct, authoritative, and entertaining arbiter of standards in contemporary writing, offering guidance for the professional writer and the beginner alike. This wise and useful book is the perfect companion for anyone who loves to read good books and longs to write one.

Review: Good Prose is the memoir of the relationship between an author and editor, as well as a style guide for aspiring writers. The relationship is unusual and hard to replicate, but not so the advice. Written in a friendly, narrative style, I found more useful suggestions in the first few pages than many other writing books contain between their covers. Recommended!

Source: Public library

Review: Lady Almina and the Real Downton Abbey

lady alminaFlap Copy: Lady Almina and the Real Downton Abbey tells the story behind Highclere Castle, the real-life inspiration for the hit PBS show Downton Abbey, and the life of one of its most famous inhabitants, Lady Almina, the 5th Countess of Carnarvon and the basis of the fictional character Lady Cora Crawley.  Drawing on a rich store of materials from the archives of Highclere Castle, including diaries, letters, and photographs, the current Lady Carnarvon has written a transporting story of this fabled home on the brink of war.

Much like her Masterpiece Classic counterpart, Lady Almina was the daughter of a wealthy industrialist, Alfred de Rothschild, who married his daughter off at a young age, her dowry serving as the crucial link in the effort to preserve the Earl of Carnarvon’s ancestral home.  Throwing open the doors of Highclere Castle to tend to the wounded of World War I, Lady Almina distinguished herself as a brave and remarkable woman.

This rich tale contrasts the splendor of Edwardian life in a great house against the backdrop of the First World War and offers an inspiring and revealing picture of the woman at the center of the history of Highclere Castle.

Review: I love history that reads like a novel, and Lady Almina and The Real Downton Abbey does just that. Written by the current Countess of Carnarvon, Lady Almina is a portrait of both a woman and an estate. Certain scenes from the television show Downton Abbey seem to be plucked from its pages, and indeed the castle itself is the star of the show. But digging deeper into the family, into their personalities and the changing social landscape that they face as the Edwardian period fades into the Roaring Twenties and then the first World War, is where the story gets really gripping.

It seems as though there are certain people in each generation who are involved in every major historical event, and this is true of the Carnarvons. Whether they are attending a coronation, hosting the first airplane flight on English soil, reinventing nursing theory, or discovering an unplundered Pharoah’s tomb, the Earl and Countess are right in the middle of it. If it were a novel, it’d be too ridiculous to believe, but as a history, it’s so much fun to do so!

Source: Public Library

Review: Operating Instructions

operating instructionsFlap Copy: The most honest, wildly enjoyable book written about motherhood is surely Anne Lamott’s account of her son Sam’s first year. A gifted writer and teacher, Lamott (Crooked Little Heart) is a single mother and ex-alcoholic with a pleasingly warped social circle and a remarkably tolerant religion to lean on. She responds to the changes, exhaustion, and love Sam brings with aplomb or outright insanity. The book rocks from hilarious to unbearably poignant when Sam’s burgeoning life is played out against a very close friend’s illness. No saccharine paean to becoming a parent, this touches on the rage and befuddlement that dog sweeter emotions during this sea change in one’s life.

Review: I wanted to like this book a lot more than I did. I have read Anne Lamott’s work before and found it inspired and inspiring, but Operating Instructions had a lot more religion or spirituality than I was expecting, and I found that to be quite a turnoff. It was nice to read about honest feelings about caring for a newborn, particularly the mean things that we think in our befuddled, sleep-deprived states, but I found It Sucked and Then I Cried (my review) to be a more illuminating read as a new parent.

Source: Public library

Review: Child of Mine: Feeding with Love and Good Sense

child of mineFlap Copy: Widely considered the leading book involving nutrition and feeding infants and children, this revised edition offers practical advice that takes into account the most recent research into such topics as: emotional, cultural, and genetic aspects of eating; proper diet during pregnancy; breast-feeding versus; bottle-feeding; introducing solid food to an infant’s diet; feeding the preschooler; and avoiding mealtime battles. An appendix looks at a wide range of disorders including allergies, asthma, and hyperactivity, and how to teach a child who is reluctant to eat. The author also discusses the benefits and drawbacks of giving young children vitamins.

Review: If I could make this required reading for every parent, I would. There is just so much sense in this book! Ellyn Satter writes for any parent who is concerned about instilling good feeding habits in their children and helping foster a healthy relationship with food. Satter covers everything from breast or bottle feeding through introducing solids to dealing with toddler preferences. Her philosophy requires the reader to come to terms with their own hang-ups regarding food, and helps prevent passing them on to the next generation.

This is one of the best all-around parenting books I’ve ever read. Feeding IS parenting, and Satter’s practical guide can help you do your best. Five stars!

Source: Public library, and halfway through I ordered my own copy!

Review: Below Stairs

below stairsFlap Copy: Brilliantly evoking the long-vanished world of masters and servants portrayed in Downton Abbey and Upstairs, Downstairs, Margaret Powell’s classic memoir of her time in service, Below Stairs, is the remarkable true story of an indomitable woman who, though she served in the great houses of England, never stopped aiming high. Powell first arrived at the servants’ entrance of one of those great houses in the 1920s.  As a kitchen maid – the lowest of the low – she entered an entirely new world; one of stoves to be blacked, vegetables to be scrubbed, mistresses to be appeased, and bootlaces to be ironed. Work started at 5.30am and went on until after dark. It was a far cry from her childhood on the beaches of Hove, where money and food were scarce, but warmth and laughter never were. Yet from the gentleman with a penchant for stroking the housemaids’ curlers, to raucous tea-dances with errand boys, to the heartbreaking story of Agnes the pregnant under-parlormaid, fired for being seduced by her mistress’s nephew, Margaret’s tales of her time in service are told with wit, warmth, and a sharp eye for the prejudices of her situation. Margaret Powell’s true story of a life spent in service is a fascinating “downstairs” portrait of the glittering, long-gone worlds behind the closed doors of Downton Abbey and 165 Eaton Place.

Review: Below Stairs has a perfectly cheeky tone, as if Mary Poppins was drunk and telling you about her life as a parlor maid. Margaret Powell has a true voice and her life story is fascinating. From abject poverty to a middle class life, she was witness to the excesses of the rich right as their downfall was beginning. Her observant stories gave me a glimpse into a world I can only otherwise imagine.

This is a great read for lovers of Downton Abbey, Upstairs/Downstairs or the changes that affected society between the end of the Edwardian period and the Roaring Twenties.

Source: Public Library

Review: Salt Sugar Fat

Salt Sugar FatFlap Copy: In the spring of 1999 the heads of the world’s largest processed food companies—from Coca-Cola to Nabisco—gathered at Pillsbury headquarters in Minneapolis for a secret meeting. On the agenda: the emerging epidemic of obesity, and what to do about it.

Increasingly, the salt-, sugar-, and fat-laden foods these companies produced were being linked to obesity, and a concerned Kraft executive took the stage to issue a warning: There would be a day of reckoning unless changes were made. This executive then launched into a damning PowerPoint presentation—114 slides in all—making the case that processed food companies could not afford to sit by, idle, as children grew sick and class-action lawyers lurked. To deny the problem, he said, is to court disaster.

When he was done, the most powerful person in the room—the CEO of General Mills—stood up to speak, clearly annoyed. And by the time he sat down, the meeting was over.

Since that day, with the industry in pursuit of its win-at-all-costs strategy, the situation has only grown more dire. Every year, the average American eats thirty-three pounds of cheese (triple what we ate in 1970) and seventy pounds of sugar (about twenty-two teaspoons a day). We ingest 8,500 milligrams of salt a day, double the recommended amount, and almost none of that comes from the shakers on our table. It comes from processed food. It’s no wonder, then, that one in three adults, and one in five kids, is clinically obese. It’s no wonder that twenty-six million Americans have diabetes, the processed food industry in the U.S. accounts for $1 trillion a year in sales, and the total economic cost of this health crisis is approaching $300 billion a year.

In Salt Sugar Fat, Pulitzer Prize–winning investigative reporter Michael Moss shows how we got here. Featuring examples from some of the most recognizable (and profitable) companies and brands of the last half century—including Kraft, Coca-Cola, Lunchables, Kellogg, Nestlé, Oreos, Cargill, Capri Sun, and many more—Moss’s explosive, empowering narrative is grounded in meticulous, often eye-opening research.

Moss takes us inside the labs where food scientists use cutting-edge technology to calculate the “bliss point” of sugary beverages or enhance the “mouthfeel” of fat by manipulating its chemical structure. He unearths marketing campaigns designed—in a technique adapted from tobacco companies—to redirect concerns about the health risks of their products: Dial back on one ingredient, pump up the other two, and tout the new line as “fat-free” or “low-salt.” He talks to concerned executives who confess that they could never produce truly healthy alternatives to their products even if serious regulation became a reality. Simply put: The industry itself would cease to exist without salt, sugar, and fat. Just as millions of “heavy users”—as the companies refer to their most ardent customers—are addicted to this seductive trio, so too are the companies that peddle them. You will never look at a nutrition label the same way again.

Review: What is there to say about this book that hasn’t already been covered on talk radio? Basically, if you have any interest in nutrition or healthy eating, go read this book.

Michael Moss delivers a damning indictment of modern food production, with in-depth research into the engineering of our favorite processed foods. The addition of salt, sugar, and fat, particularly into foods where they aren’t really needed (ie, salt is frequently added to increase the flavor sensations of other ingredients [making something more addictive], even though it’s not needed for taste, preservation, or other reasons).

While not a prescriptive book, Salt Sugar Fat makes a very compelling case for all of us to take a deeper look, past the marketing, at the actual ingredients in our food. Instead of simply believing claims about “low fat”, “reduced sodium”, or “all natural”, what if we read the ingredients and paid attention to the serving sizes and impact on our health of each thing we eat? What would our waistlines and our wallets look like?

The nice thing about Salt Sugar Fat not having a prescriptive element is that the reader is able to determine for him or herself what action to take. I have found myself scrutinizing the labels on all products – even milk! – and making decisions based on the information that I find there. This doesn’t always mean that I make healthy choices – I have been on an Oreo kick for weeks – but it means that I am making informed choices. Which I think is Moss’s ultimate goal: the food companies hold all the cards and make purposeful choices to mislead the consumer. Salt Sugar Fat gives us a little power on our side.

Source: Advance Reader’s Copy from Random House

Review: Schroder

Flap Copy: Attending summer camp as a boy, Erik Schroder– a first generation East German immigrant–adopts the name of Eric Kennedy, a decision that will set him on an improbable and transformative journey, SCHRODER relates the story of how years later, Erik finds himself on an urgent escape to Lake Champlain, Vermont with his daughter, hiding from authorities amidst a heated custody battle with estranged wife, Laura, who is unaware of his previous identity. From a correctional facility, Erik surveys the course of his life: his love for Laura, his childhood, his experience as a father. In this way, this sweeping and deftly-imagined novel is an exploration of the identities we take on in our lives-those we are born with, and those we construct for ourselves.

Review: Amity Gaige has written a stunning, beautiful story that left me heartbroken and wanting to start it again from page one.

What I love best about this book that although Erik is an unreliable narrator – he’s a criminal, after all, and even the reader doesn’t buy his excuses for why he never revealed his true identity – he’s telling the complete and unvarnished truth. His love for Laura and above all for Meadow drip from the pages. My heart was in my throat when I knew he was going to be caught – part of me wanted him to get away with it, because his love is such a pure motive. And part of me knew what a terrible thing it would be for Meadow, and for Laura, if he were to get away with it.

For fans of Douglas Kennedy and Betty Smith and any other writer whose endings are always bittersweet with the reality of life, Schroder is, simply, perfect.

Source: Advance reader’s copy from Twelve

Review: The Art Forger

art forgerFlap Copy: On March 18, 1990, thirteen works of art today worth over $500 million were stolen from the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum in Boston. It remains the largest unsolved art heist in history, and Claire Roth, a struggling young artist, is about to discover that there’s more to this crime than meets the eye.

Making a living reproducing famous artworks for a popular online retailer and desperate to improve her situation, Claire is lured into a Faustian bargain with Aiden Markel, a powerful gallery owner. She agrees to forge a painting—a Degas masterpiece stolen from the Gardner Museum—in exchange for a one-woman show in his renowned gallery. But when that very same long-missing Degas painting is delivered to Claire’s studio, she begins to suspect that it may itself be a forgery.

Her desperate search for the truth leads Claire into a labyrinth of deceit where secrets hidden since the late nineteenth century may be the only evidence that can now save her life.

Review: The Art Forger reads like a starving artist’s version of The Thomas Crowne Affair. Intrigue, deceit, art, high stakes – what’s not to love?

Full of details about both original and forged artwork, along with the politics of the art world, The Art Forger never feels forced or “teachy” but instead imparts fascinating information while spinning a great tale.

The story is riveting – I tried to slow myself down on this one but ultimately couldn’t do it; I just kept turning the pages! The characters are fully fleshed out, and even the paintings become characters, described with such intensity that their luminosity leaves the visual world and enters the textual one.

Source: I received a free copy of this book from Algonquin.

Review: The Stockholm Octavo

stockholm octavoFlap Copy: Life is close to perfect for Emil Larsson, a self-satisfied bureaucrat in the Office of Customs and Excise in 1791 Stockholm. He is a true man of the Town—a drinker, card player, and contented bachelor—until one evening when Mrs. Sofia Sparrow, a fortune-teller and proprietor of an exclusive gaming parlor, shares with him a vision she has had: a golden path that will lead him to love and connection. She lays an Octavo for him, a spread of eight cards that augur the eight individuals who can help him realize this vision—if he can find them.

Emil begins his search, intrigued by the puzzle of his Octavo and the good fortune Mrs. Sparrow’s vision portends. But when Mrs. Sparrow wins a mysterious folding fan in a card game, the Octavo’s deeper powers are revealed. For Emil it is no longer just a game of the heart; collecting his eight is now crucial to pulling his country back from the crumbling precipice of rebellion and chaos. Set against the luminous backdrop of late eighteenth-century Stockholm, as the winds of revolution rage through the great capitals of Europe, The Stockholm Octavo brings together a collection of characters, both fictional and historical, whose lives tangle in political conspiracy, love, and magic in a breathtaking debut that will leave you spellbound.

Review: Karen Engelmann weaves words the way her characters flutter fans – with entrancing, enticing, and entertaining skill.

I’m generally not a fan of historical fiction, but French Revolution-Era Stockholm comes to life in The Stockholm Octavo. I learned more about cartomancy and fan language than I ever thought I was interested in, but I became so enamored of both that after I finished the book I went hunting for more information.

Engelmann’s characters are almost Dickensian – caricatures of personality types that somehow don’t seem stock or one dimensional, and who are easy to identify by mannerism or speech. The fun of guessing who Emil’s eight were and which positions they occupied within his octavo made up for any plot elements that I missed by not knowing much about the history of the Revolution aside from the main players.

I found myself purposely curbing the speed at which I read The Stockholm Octavo – always a good sign! I didn’t want it to end, so I would only read a chapter (or sometimes 2!) a night. Ultimately, this was a fabulous journey and I’m looking forward to more books from the author. This would have been a great book club read, so I’m making people read it so I will have someone to share thoughts with!

Source: Advance Reader’s Copy from Ecco

Review: Lost Memory of Skin

lost memory of skinFlap Copy: The acclaimed author of “The Sweet Hereafter” and “Rule of the Bone” returns with a provocative new novel that illuminates the shadowed edges of contemporary American culture with startling and unforgettable results

Suspended in a strangely modern-day version of limbo, the young man at the center of Russell Banks’s uncompromising and morally complex new novel must create a life for himself in the wake of incarceration. Known in his new identity only as the Kid, and on probation after doing time for a liaison with an underage girl, he is shackled to a GPS monitoring device and forbidden to live within 2,500 feet of anywhere children might gather. With nowhere else to go, the Kid takes up residence under a south Florida causeway, in a makeshift encampment with other convicted sex offenders.

Barely beyond childhood himself, the Kid, despite his crime, is in many ways an innocent, trapped by impulses and foolish choices he himself struggles to comprehend. Enter the Professor, a man who has built his own life on secrets and lies. A university sociologist of enormous size and intellect, he finds in the Kid the perfect subject for his research on homelessness and recidivism among convicted sex offenders. The two men forge a tentative partnership, the Kid remaining wary of the Professor’s motives even as he accepts the counsel and financial assistance of the older man.

When the camp beneath the causeway is raided by the police, and later, when a hurricane all but destroys the settlement, the Professor tries to help the Kid in practical matters while trying to teach his young charge new ways of looking at, and understanding, what he has done. But when the Professor’s past resurfaces and threatens to destroy his carefully constructed world, the balance in the two men’s relationship shifts.

Suddenly, the Kid must reconsider everything he has come to believe, and choose what course of action to take when faced with a new kind of moral decision.

Long one of our most acute and insightful novelists, Russell Banks often examines the indistinct boundaries between our intentions and actions. A mature and masterful work of contemporary fiction from one of our most accomplished storytellers, “Lost Memory of Skin” unfolds in language both powerful and beautifully lyrical, show-casing Banks at his most compelling, his reckless sense of humor and intense empathy at full bore.

The perfect convergence of writer and subject, “Lost Memory of Skin” probes the zeitgeist of a troubled society where zero tolerance has erased any hope of subtlety and compassion–a society where isolating the offender has perhaps created a new kind of victim.

Review: I knew I liked this book when I started slowing down as I got to the end. This is a weird thing to say about a book I sort of shouldn’t like – it’s about a sex offender, for one thing, and has a creepy lizard on the cover and it’s set in Florida (I have never liked a book set in Florida). And yet, I really, really loved Lost Memory of Skin. More than anything, I loved the writing, and for that I’ve added every other book by the author to my to-read list.

Lost Memory of Skin follows a barely-legal sex offender as he navigates what it means to be who he is. He only begins to understand that in relation to other people in his life, which is a fairly unreliable way of establishing identity. We learn things about the Kid as though we were of his level of intelligence, which is to say, we’re not totally stupid but there is definitely something about the big picture that we are missing.

This is sort of an impossible book to explain, but it’s a fantastic read – the kind of book that sticks in your head and whose characters pop into your mind at random for a long time to come.

Source: Picked up a free copy at ALA

Review: Trickster’s Point

Flap Copy: The next novel in William Kent Krueger’s New York Times bestselling series finds Cork O’Connor sitting in the shadow of a towering monolith known as Trickster’s Point, deep in the Minnesota wilderness. With him is Jubal Little, who is favored to become the first Native American elected governor of Minnesota, and who is slowly dying with an arrow through his heart. Although the men have been bowhunting, a long-standing tradition among these two friends, this is no hunting accident. The arrow turns out to be one of Cork’s, and he becomes the primary suspect in the murder. He understands full well that he’s been set up. As he works to clear his name and track the real killer, he remembers his long, complex relationship with the tough kid who would grow up to become a professional football player, a populist politician, and the lover of the first woman to whom Cork ever gave his heart. Jubal was known by many for his passion, his loyalty, and his ambition. Only Cork knows that he was capable of murder.

Full of nail-biting suspense, plus a fascinating look into Cork’s teenage years in Aurora, a town blessed with natural beauty yet plagued by small-town feuds and heated racial tension, Trickster’s Point is a thrilling exploration of the motives, both good and ill, that lead men and women into the difficult, sometimes deadly, political arena.

Review: I’m not much of a mystery fan generally, but I make an exception for William Kent Krueger’s Cork O’Connor series. They aren’t the thriller-y kind of mysteries, full of unlikely conspiracies and crazy spy technology. The bodies might pile up at times, but the motives are plausible and the characters are well-grounded.

Best of all, I like the description of a region that’s mostly overlooked in literature, and the in-depth portrayal of the native people of the Arrowhead of Minnesota. I discovered the series shortly before moving to Minnesota, so it’s been fun to discover the state through Krueger’s writing along with my own experiences.

Trickster’s Point is a great example of Krueger’s storytelling skills. He weaves backstory into present day without causing confusion, and he brings in O’Connor’s background without leading readers astray. Did I mention that you can jump into the series at any book without needing to read the previous books? A huge plus, in my book – and even better, each subsequent read makes you WANT to read the others. Cork O’Connor gets under your skin that way.

Source: ARC from Atria

Review: It Sucked and Then I Cried

Flap Copy: An irreverent and captivating memoir about the unexpected joys and glaring indignities of pregnancy, childbirth, and parenthood – from the beloved creator of the most popular personal blog on the web, dooce.com

Heather Armstrong gave up a lot of things when she and her husband, Jon, decided to have a baby: beer, small boobs, free time — and antidepressants. The eighteen months that followed were filled with anxiety, constipation, nacho cheese Doritos, and an unconditional love that threatened to make her heart explode. Still, as baby Leta grew and her husband, Jon, returned to work, Heather faced lonely days, sleepless nights, and endless screaming that sometimes made her wish she’d never become a mother. Just as she was poised to throw another gallon of milk at her husband’s head, she committed herself for a short stay in a mental hospital — the best decision she ever made for her family.

To the dedicated millions who can’t get enough of Heather’s unforgettably unique style and hilarious stories on her hugely popular blog, there’s little she won’t share about her daily life as a recovering Mormon, liberal daughter of Republicans, wife of a charming geek, lover of television that exceeds at being really awful, and stay-at-home mom to five-year-old Leta and two willful dogs.

In It Sucked and Then I Cried, Heather tells, with trademark wit, the heartfelt, unrelentingly honest story of her battle with postpartum depression and all the other minor details of pregnancy and motherhood that no one cares to mention. Like how boring it can be to care for someone whose primary means of communication is through her bowels. And how long it can possibly take to reconvene the procedure that got you into this whole parenthood mess in the first place. And how you sometimes think you can’t possibly go five more minutes without breathing in that utterly irresistible and totally redeemable fresh baby smell.

It Sucked and Then I Cried is a brave cautionary tale about crossing over that invisible line to the other side (the parenting side), where everything changes and it only gets worse. But most of all, it’s a celebration of a love so big it can break your heart into a million pieces.

Review: I liked this book a lot better than I expected – I have sort of had it with irreverent, ground-breaking motherhood memoirs, but I think this one is the best of the bunch. Heather’s frank openness about the challenges of parenting with a mental illness is refreshing, illuminating, and imparts a feeling of solidarity.

I wish in a way that she had gone into more detail about the problems she faced – her letters to Leta are upbeat and adoring, but then she offhandedly references things like calling her husband at work simply to hang up on him and throwing things at him when he got home, with no frame of reference around the dichotomy of the images of loving mother and spiteful wife.

Still, I sped through the book; her engaging writing and hilarious blog-style commentary on everything from motherhood to Mormonism make the book down to earth and easy to read. Recommended for new mothers – and anyone who knows one!

Source: Personal library

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